tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2475665824527932978.post293419228045693040..comments2024-03-07T23:32:02.036-05:00Comments on Skinny Jean Pilgrimage: A Journey to MILFdom: Letting You Drag My Heart Around...Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08335332906374849078noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2475665824527932978.post-11736459139162779912013-01-03T15:56:39.881-05:002013-01-03T15:56:39.881-05:00Now close the gate and let Daddy handle him!!!! D...Now close the gate and let Daddy handle him!!!! Dads got this my love !!!!!!Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06727439629955294784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2475665824527932978.post-80155094319242099052013-01-03T15:55:04.779-05:002013-01-03T15:55:04.779-05:00Amen girl!!!Amen girl!!!Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06727439629955294784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2475665824527932978.post-48540297228925399342012-12-31T08:38:18.502-05:002012-12-31T08:38:18.502-05:00Vent away! This is your place, lady. And you are i...Vent away! This is your place, lady. And you are in control. <br /><br />PS- The NeNe video made the post. I love your sense of humor. :)Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02040507288634233199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2475665824527932978.post-1582434888553368852012-12-30T13:29:34.990-05:002012-12-30T13:29:34.990-05:00Don't ever feel bad for having time to vent! L...Don't ever feel bad for having time to vent! Letting those emotions out is h-e-a-l-t-h-y!! I can't even imagine what you must be feeling and I don't even know the guy and I want to kick his a**! Sarah https://www.blogger.com/profile/07185165782182182471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2475665824527932978.post-29016950092620415472012-12-30T10:08:14.677-05:002012-12-30T10:08:14.677-05:00Everything that I wanted to say, Erin already said...Everything that I wanted to say, Erin already said beautifully! It is true. You may feel like you're not getting anywhere, or healing, but you are. It just takes time. It blows. But every single day you are getting stronger. You are the lucky one, Alexandra. You have sole custody, you get to make the rules on what is best for Addy. End of story. <br /><br />You can do this. Do not let him wiggle into your head and make you feel badly about yourself. You are strong, smart, determined, beautiful, a wonderful and loving mother... You've got this! Love you, sweet girl! xoNancy Cluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08204479895714798872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2475665824527932978.post-55837473154105596212012-12-29T22:51:26.310-05:002012-12-29T22:51:26.310-05:00Wahh! I love you. That made me c r y. It's got...Wahh! I love you. That made me c r y. It's gotta get better. After yet another failure to show up to see addy, I'm just pissed. Mess with me fine, mess with her, I will stab you. I'm just hurt for her, I'm hurt for the disappointment she will feel in the years to come. I guess I need to look at it differently, I need to close the gate for her sake. If I don't talk to him then he doesn't get access to her. I want to protect her from this feeling in my heart for as long as I can. He is just not a healthy part of our life anymore! Thank you girl!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08335332906374849078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2475665824527932978.post-67627927683926991832012-12-29T22:33:57.490-05:002012-12-29T22:33:57.490-05:00You know I've got your back here girl!...
Wh...You know I've got your back here girl!... <br /><br />What you're feeling is COMPLETELY normal and like I've told you before, you're going to be better off in the end because you're going THROUGH these emotions instead of running from them. The only way out is through... and that's what you're doing. The hurt, the crying, the sadness... as hard as they are, they're all steps in your healing process. And yes, you will heal. It takes a long time, but you do. And you will, I promise.<br /><br />Do something for me this week, k? When you reach for the phone to call him? Don't. You're not going to get what you're looking for on the other end of that line. No matter what he says, it's not going to make you better. He could say he's sorry, it wouldn't be real... he could say he loves Addy and wants to be an amazing father... you'd know better. He could say he wants you back... you'd know that despite the hurt you're going through, that that life isn't for you and your precious baby girl anymore. There's absolutely nothing he can say that will take away your pain. Calling him is nothing but an attempt to keep that bond up between the two of you, no matter how broken it is. Yelling at him isn't going to change him, it's just going to give him more reason to think he has control over you. He doesn't, YOU DO. It hurts, and it's SO hard not to reach for that phone... but that person you're looking to talk to on the other end of the line? He's not there anymore. He's not that same man that he used to be.<br /><br />Oh and his karma? It may not be tomorrow, or next month, or even next year, but it will come. And as much as you're looking forward to it now? When it happens, you won't even care anymore... you'll just roll your eyes and thank God that this whole mess happened so that you didn't waste another seven years of your life with him. You got the best part of him in your little girl... you don't need or deserve anything else from him.<br /><br />Indulge in your pity party... we all have to go through it. And then when you get up, you WILL be a little bit stronger than you were yesterday, and the day before that, and the day before that.<br /><br />xoxoShe's a big starhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18385405097113766641noreply@blogger.com